OT 30 [A]: Ex 22:20-26; I Thes 1:5c-10; Mt 22:34-40
Isidor Isaac Rabi, a Nobel Prize
winner in Physics and one of the key developers of the atomic bomb, was once
asked how he became a scientist. Rabi replied that every single day after
school, his mother would talk to him about his day. She wasn’t primarily
interested in what facts he had memorized or what grades he had earned, but
rather how he conducted himself in his learning. She always inquired,
"Did you ask a good question today?"
"Asking good questions,"
Rabi noted, "is what made me a scientist."
To ask a truly good question, a
person must possess noble motives and a genuine desire to discover the truth.
The Pharisees, however, approached Jesus with a very different spirit. They
already felt they had all the answers. They came to Jesus not to learn, but to
trap Him, testing Him with a question designed to damage His reputation and
entangle Him in the bitter theological debates of their day: "Teacher,
which commandment in the law is the greatest?"
Jesus does not take the bait of
picking one duty over another. Instead, He cuts straight to the eternal bedrock
of divine revelation: "You shall love the Lord your God with all your
heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and the
first commandment. And the second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as
yourself. On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets."
Beyond
Minimalism
In giving this answer, Jesus calls
us away from the trap of minimalism. We are so often tempted to ask, "What
is the bare minimum I need to do to get by? How much must I pray, how much must
I give, how many rules must I follow to stay out of trouble?"
True divine love does not count the
cost. We can see an earthly analogy in the love that good parents have for
their children. Parents do not search for the minimum amount of affection
required to remain legally compliant. They pour out their love continually
because their children need it, because they are their children. They are not
loved for their looks, their talents, or their intelligence, but simply for who
they are. In the same way, God loves us not because we have earned it, but
because we are His children. And in return, Jesus calls us to love God and
neighbor completely, without reservation.
The poet Maya Angelou was once asked
what her ultimate lifetime goals were. She answered simply, "I want to
become a Christian." Maya Angelou was already a Christian! But her point
was profound: Christianity is an ongoing, daily process of becoming. Every day
we take new steps to allow God to transform us. And every day, God uses the
people around us to help us find Him.
The
Inseparable Twin Commandments
Notice the precise order and force
of Jesus' words. “The second is like it.” In some translations, it is
rendered as resembles it. The second commandment—love of neighbor—is not
an optional add-on, nor is it a softer, more secular version of the first. It
resembles the first because it draws its very life from it.
Any love for our neighbor that is
not rooted in a profound love for God ceases to be Gospel love. It may look
generous, it may feel warm, and it may accomplish a great deal of social good
on the surface, but if God is divorced from it, it loses its eternal soul. Yet,
the two parts of the commandment are utterly inseparable, even when they seem
to pull us in opposite directions.
Our first reading from Exodus is
startlingly blunt about this danger: God hears the cry of the oppressed, and
His anger flares against those who claim to belong to Him while crushing or
ignoring the vulnerable. You cannot truly love God while treating your neighbor
as disposable. As St. John bluntly writes, "Anyone who says they love
God but hates their brother or sister is a liar."
On the other hand—and this is a
subtle, pervasive danger in our modern culture—we can become so consumed by
"loving our neighbor" through activism, social causes, or
philanthropy that God quietly drops out of the picture entirely. We reduce the
second commandment to a mere program of social work: do good, be kind, make the
world a better place.
When neighbor-love is disconnected
from God, it becomes purely our own heavy burden. This is precisely why human
relationships and marriages so often exhaust us. Couples try to sustain
indissoluble love through sheer willpower alone, forgetting that there is a
necessary Third Party to the covenant: God. God’s grace is what cements,
completes, and fulfills human love.
Gospel
Love vs. Mere Altruism
When our heart is fixed on God—when
we love Him with everything we are—our neighbor is no longer viewed merely as a
project, a political cause, or a way to make ourselves feel virtuous. The
neighbor becomes someone who belongs to the God we adore. We begin to see them
through His eyes and serve them with His heart. The love we offer is no longer
our own fragile achievement; it is a direct participation in the very life and
love of God.
This is the vast difference between
Gospel love and the altruism of the do-gooder. The do-gooder acts out of duty,
ideology, or the quiet psychological satisfaction of being useful. While that
produces temporary earthly benefits, it remains strictly horizontal. It never
rises to God, and therefore it cannot ultimately transform the giver or the
receiver.
Conclusion
The tension between the two
commandments is real, but it is a holy and healthy tension. If our love for God
does not push us outward in service to our neighbor, it is sterile. If our love
for neighbor is not continually drawn back into the wellspring of God's grace,
it will wither into mere activism or burnout.
As we now prepare to enter the
Eucharistic Prayer—the memorial of Christ's supreme sacrifice, the total gift
of Himself to the Father and to us—we pray for the courage to love God with our
whole hearts, minds, and souls, so that we might truly see and love our neighbors
as living reflections of His presence in the world.